Today's guest is one of the 'three twins' I mentioned when I was introducing Holly Jacobs. Donna, Holly and I all got together at RW and we got on so well, shared so many things, laughed so much - and talked so much - that we were all like twins - except there were three of us. That wasn't the first time I'd met Donna though - that was on line - and then one lovely day she came to London the attend the Association of Mills & Boon Authors' luncheon and we first met in person. It was avery special day for me because it was the occasion on which I was presented with my pin for publishing 50 books and it was made extra special by having Donna there in person.
It's time you came back again Donna!
How I Met... Your Father - Donna Alward
Recently my girls got hooked on the US sitcom HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER. I had never watched the show before and I always thought it was about a guy meeting his girlfriend's mother. But it's not. It's about Ted, and his search for true love, and he narrates his way through like he's talking to his kids... about how he met their mother.
When my lovely friend Kate asked if I'd help her celebrate this awesome milestone, for some reason How I Met Your Mother popped into my head, and so to keep with the true love theme (or as we say in The Princess Bride: Twoo wuv), I'll share a bit about how I met their father.
When I was seventeen, I met my husband for the first time. I was in my last year of high school. He was older (twenty-one at that point). My sister and his brother were dating, and he'd been doing something with his bro and they all ended up at our house for supper one evening. I also had a boyfriend, but that didn't stop me from thinking he was cute. I didn't see him for a while after that night. Apparently he'd said something to my sister and she'd responded with something to the tune of "She's trouble." (Nice sister. I've since forgiven her.)
Fast forward to the next spring. We drove out to the lake to pick up the boys from fishing. I had supper at my sister's. He and I did dishes together. He didn't say more than 2 words to me. Ouch.
Ok, so the challenge was ON. My sis and his bro were getting married when I finished first year university, and I knew he was Best Man. I was the soloist for the wedding and put some extra effort into losing a little weight and buying a really cute dress. The sum total of our conversation at the wedding was me mentioning how he was supposed to give the envelope to the minister after the ceremony. That was IT.
I'd pretty much given up on anything happening when things clicked that August. I'd just turned nineteen, and I'd been stood up on my birthday (hmph. Rude). My sister and I played softball for the same team and his brother and his sister's boyfriend played for a men's team, and there was a ball party. I asked him if he was coming back for the party and he kind of shrugged, but his sister convinced him. We served as designated drivers and spent most of the evening sitting on a picnic table talking. Seems all we needed was some persistence and some time to get to know each other.
The next day I knew. I knew that he was THE ONE. It took us over 4 years, a degree and a couple of jobs to get to the altar, but here we are, 18 years later.
He was definitely worth waiting for.
I'm giving away a copy of my new release, A COWBOY TO COME HOME TO (which incidentally is about true love, go figure!).
Just let me know if you've ever had that life-altering moment when you met the ONE person you knew was THE ONE!
Congratulations Kate and Babe Magnet on your Ruby Wedding! Love you both!
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